Friends: To Mix or Not to Mix, That is the Question

For some reason, people tend to like me. I’m not saying this to brag, but because it truly baffles me sometimes. I admit I’m selfish and have a tendency to be snarky at times, yet I’ve never had a real enemy in my adult life. High school no longer counts.

I think people like me because I listen and offer sound advice when I can. I truly celebrate my friend’s accomplishments. I don’t believe in hating on the good fortune of others. If you’re surrounded by happy successful people, you’re more likely to be happy and successful yourself. Or at least have the drive to seek happiness and success. Read more of this post

I’m Publishing My First Novel!

Last Monday I was in the midst of a nervous breakdown. Okay, more like a self-induced anxiety attack. I was looking at my calendar, counting weeks and driving my husband insane. Why was I such a freakazoid? Because it was nearing six weeks since I’d queried Crimson Romance. The rational part of my brain said it wasn’t a very long time and to be patient. The other part of my brain kept saying they’re going to reject you. I finally calmed myself down, did the wife and mother thing, I think I even worked out before settling  in for my usual 9 p.m. writing time. I flip on my lap top for a quick email check and what do I see: “We enjoyed You Can’t Plan Love and we’d love to have it for Crimson!” Read more of this post

I’m Sleeping with Somebody New

I got my husband’s attention the other day when I said I couldn’t wait to get in bed with Devin. Of course he looked at me as if I’d lost my mind, until I explained Devin is the hero is my third manuscript. I love men. Let me clarify, real men (for my definition of a real man read this post). A man’s body: his hands, arms, shoulders, back, butt, thighs, calves, lips and let’s not forget his…brain. :-) When all those things are tight, it’s a huge turn on. So, obviously as I get to know the men in my novels I fall in love with each of them. And look forward to testing their skills in the bedroom. Read more of this post

I Want it All

My supermom shield took a beating over the past few weeks. My day job required a few late nights last month. My oldest son twice said he didn’t like it when I worked late. I can take pretty much anything, but having my son complain about my late hours was a difficult pill to swallow. Add to that my attempts to write, and a day trip to Charleston for my firs Romance Writers of America meeting, it’s no surprise my husband’s comment when I ask if he minds if I volunteer at the SC Book Festival is “Don’t you do enough already?” Which in turns beg me to ask, can we really have it all? Read more of this post

A Series is Born

As I wrote my novel You Can’t Plan Love, it wasn’t with the plan to develop a series. But, as what often happens when I write, the characters began taking a life of their own. As I completed the story I realized a few of the characters had other things going on in their lives which needed addressing. So, as I worked through the revisions of Malcolm and Kenyatta’s story, I began writing Malcolm’s brother Jared’s story. I must say a part of me enjoyed watching Jared’s journey more than Malcolm’s. He had more to overcome before he could accept love. Right now his story is with a critique partner. Read more of this post

He’s a Man, Is No Excuse

I recently discussed the goings on at a bachelor party for a man I do not know to a woman I do not know. Therefore, I feel as if I can rant about what happened at said party. Apparently during the “entertainment” the groomsmen took up a collection to pay one of the strippers in attendance $300 to sleep with the groom. When I asked if the groom did it the answer I received, “He’s a man.”

WTF!?! What does being a man have to do with condoning, encouraging or participating in something so stupid? There are so many things wrong with that situation I don’t know where to start. Read more of this post

A Method Writer

I’ve wanted to blog about my writing style for a while, but never knew how to describe it. Low and behold, the March edition of Romance Writer’s Report hit the proverbial nail on the head. When I read Adele Dubois’ article Infuse Your Book with Emotion: The Method I had one of those “this is it” moments. I am a method writer.

In the article Ms. Dubois defines method writing. In my words, it’s a play on method acting, where you live the part of the character. It goes beyond just writing about how your characters feel, or showing what they’re doing, to actually feeling what your characters feel and doing what they do. Read more of this post

Second Campaigner Challenge #writecampaign

Oh…my…goodness! This campaigner challenge was a doozy. I almost didn’t participate. I wasn’t sure if I could actually do it, but I did. So below I’ve listed the five (count them five) prompts. One a written prompt, the other four picture prompts. If I didn’t hit all the challenge requirements I still think I did a darn good job. Check it out. Read more of this post

Campaigner Challenge #writecampaign

It’s my first Campaigner Challenge! The task: write a short story/flash fiction in 200 words or less. Begin with the words “Shadows crept across the wall”. For an extra challenge end with “everything faded”, use the word orange, write in your normal genre (romance) and make the story exactly 200 words.

Shadows crept across the wall. The smell of gardenia—my favorite flower—floated on the ocean breeze as it lifted the curtains. He’d planted them after our split. I stretched and indulged in the soreness that came with an afternoon of lovemaking. Tomorrow I might regret today’s decision. But, it took three years to get this glorious afternoon, I wouldn’t spoil it by thinking of the consequences.

I rolled over expecting to see him, but the bed was empty. My heart beat frantically as I sat up. My eyes scanned the room looking for any trace of him. His clothes, haphazardly thrown across the room before, were missing. Mine folded neatly on a chair. Pain constricted my chest and tears burned my eyes. Memories of a similar scene hit me: waking up alone, the only reminder of him a cryptic note saying our lovemaking was a mistake.

This couldn’t be happening. After everything it took to get here, could he leave me so callously yet again?

The door opened. My breath caught then released in a rush. He stood there smiling, eating an orange. He walked over, bent and kissed me. Tomorrow didn’t matter. When we were together everything faded.

So what do you think?

I’ve been tagged #writecampaign

One of my fellow campaigners Regina has tagged me. I’m quickly answering these questions (but I did have to put some thought into number 5 and I’m still not quite sure). Anywho, this weekend I’ll return the favor and tag other campaigners. 

1- What is your favourite writing place?

My kitchen table. TV off, glass of wine handy.

2-What is the best thing about writing?

Going someplace new, getting in the mind of someone different, and living out fantasies.

3-What is your favourite quote?

Thisnis hard, my wall at work is covered with quotes. “Next to God we are indebted to women, first for life itself, and then for making it worth living.” Mary McLeod Bethune

4-Where do you get inspiration from?

Everything. A conversation, nature,a daydream, it all inspires me in my writing and in my life.

5-If you could be a historical figure, who would you be and why?

Hmmm..never thought about this. Cleopatra. To experience that much control over powerful men. I’d skip the killing myself part though.

6-Name you  top three favourite authors.

Laura Lee Gurkhie, Lisa Kleypas, Beverly Jenkins

7-If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?

London, it’s not fancy but I’m obsessed with so many manynthings British.

8-Besides reading and writing, name other two pastimes hobbies.

Excercising and making my yard sustainable.

9- Name your top three websites.

Google, Twitter, Facebook

10-What advice would you give to an anspiring author?

Never give up. Writing is rewarding and frustrating. Sometimes you want to throw up you hands and say to hell with it. But you can’t. Nothing worth having comes easily so keep trying.

11- What special power would you choose to have?

The ability to make children sit quietly with one word. And my husband too :)

 

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